Jumaat, 18 Oktober 2013

Marriage_Another Level of Life Enjoyment?



Indeed.

It takes me awhile to understand what God has planned to me. 

He wanted us to meet the wrong person before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.


Alhamdulillah, God has delivered to me a perfect partner of life to live with. 





Thank You Allah.


And for those out there, who still leading in a solo life, just enjoy your single life to the fullest. A happy person is content with their portion in life. They feel good about themselves and good about life. They focus on what they have rather than on what they do not have. Couple of years ago, i read an article, which really open up my mind on how you can actually appreciate your life, either being single or married.
"It’s very important to remember no one else is responsible for your happiness. Many people make the mistake of thinking someone else will fulfill them and make their life better and that’s their reason for getting married.  People fail to realize that if they are unhappy as a single person, they will continue to be miserable when they are married.  If you are currently not happy with yourself, don’t like yourself, don’t like the direction your life is going now, it’s important to take responsibility for that now and work on improving those areas of your life before considering marriage.  Don’t bring these issues into your marriage and hope your partner will fix them."   
by Dr. Nafisa Sekandari & Hosai Mojaddidi
Key point: Be happy with what you have now and love comes when you least expect it. This is a very damn true fact.

As for now, i am happy with my brand-new title, Puan. As much as i love my single life, marriage offers a lot more happiness to me. I hope, i pray.. the love stays till Jannah, InshaAllah. :-)

All photo credit to The Styliss Photography

Danial Arif, i love you even more now.

40 ulasan:

  1. sooooo true! I guess many of us have gone all wrongs before finally met THE TRUE ONE :) I loved the freedom of being single (itu je kot) but loving marriage life more.. I get to travel independently pun after I'm married (unlike you or others, I come from a rather conservative family whose parents wont let their daughters travel abroad alone/with friends - except with them only =.= so getting married was actually my ticket to travel independently jugak indirectly haha - as couple la).

    Looking forward to read your honeymoon vacations!

    p.s. photos so cantik!! :)

    BalasPadam
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    1. thnx ilyani! honeymoon will be at the year end..stay tune hehee :-)

      Padam
  2. untungla maszuber dah kawen... hiks! tahniah againnn~ ;)))

    BalasPadam
  3. Congratulation to you Puan MasZuber. Glad that you find the perfect soulmate, who share the same interest and passion too =) Congratulation to both of you and Dan Arif.

    BalasPadam
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    1. thnx diana!! yeah it feels sooooo good when your other half share the same passion :-)

      Padam
  4. Tahniah juga ;)
    Selamat PEngantin Baru

    BalasPadam
  5. tahniah and so true.. saya banyak berjumpe dengan org yang salah tapi akhirnya bertemu jua dengan suami yang melengkapkan hidup saya.

    perkahwinan adalah satu permulaan semoga kita semua dapat mengharungi segala rintangan dan mendapatkan keredha dari Ilahi.

    Salam saya pertama kali singgah ke sini and i like!!

    BalasPadam
  6. @maszuber
    cngrtz again! maaf xdpt bersua muka aritu! =D

    BalasPadam
  7. Tahniah... Alhamdulillah .. suka tgk orang yg kita kenal even alam maya ni dah berkahwin :D
    Moga ceria dan bahgia kekal hingga ke syurga aminn :D

    BalasPadam
  8. i tell you...marriage life is FAR better than single life IF both complete each other. enjoy traveling with ur hubby, i can guarantee that it will TOP everything :)

    BalasPadam
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    1. exactly!!!

      way better than anything world could offer. alhamdulillah :-)

      Padam
  9. Tahniah kak maz..semoga pekahwinan yg dibina bahagia hingga ke alam syurga kelak.semoga Allah swt merahmati setiap usaha korang dlm membina keluarga yg dirahmati dan diredhai Allah swt

    BalasPadam
  10. alhamdulillah..,tahniahnyerr cikmas yg jelitter tuuu.,;-p

    BalasPadam
  11. Congrats and may Allah bless you both :)

    BalasPadam
  12. tahniah dear..
    syok la boleh travel berdua lepas ni..

    BalasPadam
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    1. thnx norh.

      ha tu la... rejki dpt husband yg kaki jalan jugek :-)

      Padam
  13. congratulations. semoga bahagia till jannah. aminnnn...

    BalasPadam
  14. Tahniah,semoga sampai jannah. la kenapa akak baru tahu ni.

    BalasPadam
  15. im happy for both of you
    enuf say

    BalasPadam
  16. congrats dear....!!! moga kekal bahagia hingga ke akhir hayat..

    BalasPadam
  17. oh baru tawen yea..oh selamat perantin baru!!

    BalasPadam