Jumaat, 18 Oktober 2013

Marriage_Another Level of Life Enjoyment?


It takes me awhile to understand what God has planned to me. 

He wanted us to meet the wrong person before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

Alhamdulillah, God has delivered to me a perfect partner of life to live with. 

Thank You Allah.

And for those out there, who still leading in a solo life, just enjoy your single life to the fullest. A happy person is content with their portion in life. They feel good about themselves and good about life. They focus on what they have rather than on what they do not have. Couple of years ago, i read an article, which really open up my mind on how you can actually appreciate your life, either being single or married.
"It’s very important to remember no one else is responsible for your happiness. Many people make the mistake of thinking someone else will fulfill them and make their life better and that’s their reason for getting married.  People fail to realize that if they are unhappy as a single person, they will continue to be miserable when they are married.  If you are currently not happy with yourself, don’t like yourself, don’t like the direction your life is going now, it’s important to take responsibility for that now and work on improving those areas of your life before considering marriage.  Don’t bring these issues into your marriage and hope your partner will fix them."   
by Dr. Nafisa Sekandari & Hosai Mojaddidi
Key point: Be happy with what you have now and love comes when you least expect it. This is a very damn true fact.

As for now, i am happy with my brand-new title, Puan. As much as i love my single life, marriage offers a lot more happiness to me. I hope, i pray.. the love stays till Jannah, InshaAllah. :-)

All photo credit to The Styliss Photography

Danial Arif, i love you even more now.