pix: how positive you are to handle that huge burden?
A friend told me:
Do not choose someone because you think you can change this person to the better or because you hope this person will alone fix your personality faults.
accept this person's faults and weaknesses, and be with this person for his passion to try and change for bettermen himself . Think of that person as your best friend and partner; someone who helps ease the troubles of your day and life.