Jumaat, 8 April 2011

selfish love VS selfless love

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There are two types of love - selfish love and selfless love - they are the exact opposites of one and other.

Selfish love is conditional love; you simply want your needs to be met, and if the person you have chosen to love doesn’t serve your needs, you reject that person and search elsewhere. Although it may seem beautiful for a time, such love without growth is bound to fail. When the person you love wants help, you may give it. But once the price becomes too high, if you feel you are giving more than you are receiving, you simply stop loving. After all, there is only so much discomfort that you are willing to tolerate for another person.



Selfless love, though, means rising above your own needs. It means going outside of yourself, truly connecting with another person’s ruh and therefore with Allah (swt). There are no conditions to selfless love; when Allah (swt) is the focus of our love, we do not constantly redefine our wants and needs.

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So how to get the selfless love?

Read more here.

p/s: learn to love yourself first.

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8 ulasan:

  1. uncle gedek8 April 2011 pada 9:28 PG

    alamak...

    uncle lemah bahasa inggeris....

    BalasPadam
  2. h4ni38 April 2011 pada 7:54 PTG

    sometimes, we need both :)

    BalasPadam
  3. ankeljonni8 April 2011 pada 9:49 PTG

    waaaaaaa... (garu2 kepala)..
    Aku teringin nak rasa becinta ngan artis...

    BalasPadam
  4. MasZuber9 April 2011 pada 10:10 PG

    @uncle gedek:

    allaaaaa..uncle tipu..

    BalasPadam
  5. MasZuber9 April 2011 pada 10:11 PG

    @h4ni3:

    the balance in between..

    BalasPadam
  6. MasZuber9 April 2011 pada 10:12 PG

    @abg jonni:

    ayyoooo, pening woo kepala b'cinta ngan artis nie!

    BalasPadam
  7. BonekadalamChermin9 April 2011 pada 10:40 PG

    hmm

    lamanya tak bercinta
    nak kena stadi balek ni


    hahaha

    BalasPadam
  8. MasZuber9 April 2011 pada 11:46 PG

    @BDC:

    bukan sekarang sedang belajar balik ka ayen..?

    ;p

    BalasPadam